Borstein was born in Highland Park, Illinois, a suburb north of the city of Chicago, in 1973 (according to her own official website) though some sources still say 1971. Borstein has two elder brothers. Her parents (Irv ad Judy Borstein) are both mental health professionals. She and her family are Jewish. She attended San Francisco State University in San Francisco, California.
Borstein trained in improv at the ACME Comedy Theater, where she met her writing partner and future husband Jackson Douglas. Shortly after they began working together on the animated series Casper and Pinky and the Brain, Borstein left her position at an ad agency, where she had written print ads for Barbie to become a full writer. In 1996, while still writing for Casper, Borstein worked on the show Power Rangers: Zeo as the voice of Queen Machia, the Queen of Machine Empire.
In 1997, Borstein became of cast member on the third season of the sketch comedy show MADtv. She originally joined the cast as a featured player, but was upgraded to the repertory mid-season.
Borstein was perhaps best known on MADtv for her character Ms.Swan; her other recurring characters including: Eracist Anne, "Stick Chick" Echo, singer Jasmine Wayne-Wayne, child prodigy Karen Goddard, lounge singer Shaunda, News at Six outside-the-studio reporter Sue Napersville and Cordo the Gap troll. When Seth Green made recurring appearances on the show as the mean boss Mr. Brightling, Borstein would play his mother, Mama Brightling.
While working on MADtv, Borstein met Seth MacFarlane, who was then preparing to launch the animated sitcom Family Guy on FOX (MacFarlane was originally supposed to create animated short for MADtv, but declined in favor of creating an independent series. MacFarlane cast Borstein as the voice of key character Lois Griffin. After the show's debut in January 1999, Family Guy was cancelled by the network 2002 but returned in 2005; as well as her role as the voice performer for Lois and several other characters throughout the series (including a brief appearances as Ms. Swan in a 2005 episode) Borstein is also producer and staff writer. She has made at least three guest appearances, once as Lois Griffin on the Comedy Central animated program Drawn Together.
In 2000, Borstein was cast as Sookie St. James in the WB drama Gilmore Girls. She portrayed Sookie in the pilot, but her MADtv contract prevented her from continuing in the role, which was recast with Melissa McCarthy, Borstein made recurring appearances on Gilmore Girls throughout the show's run, first as the harpist Drella.
As an actress, she has made appearances in such films as Killers and Dinners for Schmucks. She played the school principal in The Lizzie McGuire Movie, the best friend of Halle Berry's character Patience Phillips in Catwoman, and an employee at CBS News in Good Luck, and Good Night. She also had an uncredited cameo in the Will Ferrell movie Kicking & Screaming as an obnoxious coffee shop patron. She also had a small role in the movie Bad Santa.
In game shows, Borstein was a co-host of GSN's Celebrity Blackjack in 2004. She also appeared as a comedian contestant on the short-lived IFC comedy-driven game show Bunk in 2012.
Borstein was cast as a press secretary in the 2007 sitcom pilot The Thick of It, but the series was not picked up for broadcast. She can be seen in the upcoming comedy For Christ's Sake, which is directed by her real-life husband Jackson Douglas.
In 2010, Borstein joined the first season staff of the Showtime comedy-drama Shameless, as a writer and supervising producer. In its second season she held the position of writer and consulting producer. She also guest starred in the first season episode "But at Last Came a Knock" as Lou Deckner.
Borstein's production company is called Crackerpants Inc. In 2007, they released the DVD Drop Dead Gorgeous (In a Down-to-Earth Bombshell Sort of Way), a recording of a live performance at the Alex Theatre, with opening act Teddy Towne. The title comes from one of many actual female character breakdowns Borstein reads from to illustrate sexism in the industry.
Borstein was nominated for a Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Voice-Over Performance for her Family Guy episode "Lois Comes Out of Her Shell" (2013). Borstein is currently appearing in an American version of the comedy Getting On.
Borstein is married to actor and writer Jackson Douglas, whom she met while studying improv at the ACME Comedy Theatre. Douglas proposed to her during the taping of a MADtv skit; the couple married in 1999. In the DVD commentary for the Family Guy episode "Stewie Kills Lois", at the time she was pregnant she joked about the possibility of naming her baby Stewie (based on the character from Family Guy). The couple's son, (Barnaby Borstein Douglas) was born on September 8, 2008. Borstein gave birth to their daughter (Henrietta Borstein Douglas) on October 1, 2012.
Borstein plays the Harp, as she demonstrated on Gilmore Girls.
- Celebrity Blackjack (Season 1 only)